Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

relationship



When you think that you are living a happy relationship when your partner lets out, without any kind of warning, those hard words: it's over. Maybe you're caught off guard, maybe you've been waiting for something like that. In any case, every term brings with it its burden of pain, suffering, and anguish. Luckily, this is not forever, because, sorry, but no one dies of love, what killed famous poets, novelists, romancists and, philosophers in a few centuries ago is a sickness called tuberculosis. The ending of a relationship can be quite traumatic and leave scars on most people, especially those who got dumped. In addition to having to deal with sadness, you still need to overcome the sense of rejection to move on. One day you will return to a light and happy life. 
I made a list of step-by-step of 10 things I use to do after a breakup ( speaking for myself after a breakup if it is to cry I do it only for one day and I will be fine). Once you check all of these tips and maybe put them into practice, you will realize that it is not the end of the world. All are learning and soon you will feel wonderful again. Check out our tips below and get ready to feel better.

 Allow yourself to suffer ( but not forever, ok?)
Do not feel guilty about crying or wanting to lie in bed all day. Suffering after the end of a relationship is very normal. So when the sadness comes, feel it. Cry all you want to, when you remember the good times when to look at the photos when to reread the conversations it is normal to have ups and downs, but we can learn from all the feelings. After that move on.
Top my 10 things to do after getting dumped!

Do not look at your ex-boyfriend social networks
We know it's hard to resist the temptation, but try not to look at the social networks of the person who killed you. Turn off notifications, stop following, or even block him. Knowing that the other is okay will not contribute to your overcoming process. This is the easier tip, right? Because even though you're curious to know about him, you're not going to want to show any weakness right? Be a strong girl!

Keep the people you like around
You do not have to go through this difficult time alone. It's time to be surrounded by people who really want to see you well. It could be your co-worker, friends, relatives. Having a company to vent, change an idea or just do nothing is always valid. Talking will make you cool your head and start to see that the world goes far beyond the pain of a term.
Top my 10 things to do after getting dumped!

Do not force yourself to do anything
Possibly you will receive many invitations from friends to go out, go to the nightclubs or bars, plus advice that you need to meet new people and download the date application of the moment. It may even be interesting, but do not force yourself to do anything if you do not feel prepared to. You may even want to distance yourself from any possibility of romance. Let things happen in your time. When you feel safe and ready, go ahead.

Find Out What You Love
Do you have any hobbies? It's time to pay attention to it. And if you do not have one, find something you love to do. You can embroider, dance, run, write, take care of little plants, makeup courses, swimming and so on. Find something you like and dedicate yourself to doing it. Will make you feel better!

Feel more beautiful than ever (because you are pretty)
Enough of feeling the worst, ugliest and most unloved person in the universe. It's time to love yourself, feel wonderful, put your self-esteem up there. Here are some things to keep in mind: write down what you have, take time to take care of yourself, make a list of everything you are thankful for. And if you need to, cut the hair, change the color of the usual enamel, make a tattoo, change what you want to change. Sometimes we have a wonderful life and we do not even realize it. Self-love and confidence will make you go far.

Do the things you've always wanted to do
When you are in a relationship, you may not always be able to do all the things you want to at the moment you are in the mood. Being single is no longer a concern. Enjoy living what you want, whether traveling without making plans, going to a different restaurant or practicing some radical sport. You only have this life, live it!

Organize your  drawers and your closet
It may seem a bit too metaphorical, but it is not. If you can not leave your own things in order, how will you keep life on track? It's time to organize the drawers, the wardrobe, the whole house. You will see that this organization will reflect positively in other areas of your daily life.

Monday, January 18, 2016

Hello my glamourettes, how are you? What do you think to star the week very elegant and glamorous?
The jeans are  indispensable in the women wardrobe. It is a very versatile and goes well with everything, wonderful!! Don't you think so??
Today I'm bringing to you stylish ways  to combine the jeans, one of the basic pieces of clothing more democratic and versatile of your wardrobe, creating different looks and with the benefit of the power to use in any season.
If your work does not require a very formal dressing code, you can even wear your jeans to work, the most ideal is in dark shade, combined with blazer and ankle boots. And with your jeans you can make different looks, alternating with other equally versatile pieces such as the white shirt, cashmere sweater, leather jacket, especially caps and ponchos.

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For those inspired days, that want to be very elegant and chic for the work, or to go out, nothing better than flared jeans, blouse, tuxedo blazer, or overcoat, bag and high heels pump. Just wear and got to work always elegant.
Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

You can also wear jeans with, a white shirt (basic and essential piece of any female wardrobe), the synthetic jacket or coat and boots.
Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

Or this one the Jeans with, lace shirt, blazer, you can use a belt to define the waist and give a more cool look and ending with boots.

Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean
Look of the day: Stylish ways to wear a jean

For those days that you are not inspired enough, and do not know what to wear and are delayed for the work, nothing better than jeans, turtleneck sweater, trench coat and ankle boots or high heels pumps. Just wear and got to work always elegant.

Sunday, November 01, 2015

Hello guys,
The world has changed - and with it, also increased the role of women! Prejudices and submissions have given way to financial independence, cultural and social female. But as the girl power is conquering the world, there are some women truths that men still need to realize.
These truths it comes to breaking stereotypes, models and the female universe taboos. They are facts that every woman would have you know, and those who still do not know, it's time to understand once and for all!


1. Women also like sex as much as you
9 Truths about women that men need to understand

It may seem that they like less because they are already inserted in a society that need to be "modest ladies," but it's actually not the case. Women have much sexual desire as man, only that she have sex with general she is bitch while the guy is fucking womanizer.

2. Also masturbate, yes!

9 Truths about women that men need to understand

Why not? The female masturbation is still a big taboo, despite the need for pleasure (and pleasuring herself) is organic to every human being and every animal. Why the woman would be different?

3. Women also breaks wind
9 Truths about women that men need to understand

Even more than men because the lower part of the colon is higher in the female body, leaving much space for digestion and more gases. And it should not be something so shameful! From childhood, boys learn to find favor in his farts, while girls learn to feel embarrassed.

4. And menstruating should not be an embarrassment

Another taboo of the female universe is menstruation. This is a natural function of the woman's body, and should not be cause for shame.
Take for example the gesture of Kiran Gandhi, the runner who got her period the day before the race and decided to participate without using absorbent, it would be very uncomfortable. Although this is not feasible in our daily lives, this gesture is very symbolic in regards to women's autonomy.

5. They scientifically drive better!

A new survey, conducted in 2015 in the UK, came to this conclusion, since women fared better than men on tests and driving assessments. Women scored 23.6 points to 19.8 points against 30 men.

6. And "hot", "dishy", "sexy but", etc: is not praise
9 Truths about women that men need to understand

In fact, these "Praises" harassment are masked. No woman dresses or gets ready to hear these things on the street. And listen to this kind of thing does not make us feel good, or beautiful, but angry and troubled. Everyone should know that!

7. Not all of us are delicate or "dolls"

Many women do not correspond to this delicate doll model, and there is nothing wrong with that. The stereotype for women is to be a real lady, but this is not a rule.

8. And not all of us dream of being mothers
9 Truths about women that men need to understand

Many of us also do not want to marry and become mothers - and since, unlike the old days, we do not "exist" only for reproduction, there is nothing wrong with that too!

9. When a woman likes another woman, not because she is a "unloved woman"

All men, and even many women need to be aware of that! The sexual orientation of a woman (or any other human being) relates only to her and involves many other deeper aspects - which a "good sex" would not solve!

Sunday, October 25, 2015

Hello girls,
Sadness, discouragement, and frustration are signs that you are settling for little. No dream, just think about the difficulties, give up before trying things are boycotting your happiness. Worse, often we do not realize.
 stop settling for little

Delete the phrase "It's hard for me" from your vocabulary
Who usually responds to invitations to dinner, participate in a project or go to a party and meet new people with the phrase "It's hard for me" tends to settle for less than you deserve in all areas. "This is a way to turn any desire to impossible dream." With ready negative, always at the read yon the tip of the tongue, serves as a shield to protect the new. Try an experiment: ". If  you ban for a week to talk" It is difficult "" or something else. So just tell I want  or I want not and see how many opportunities will open up. "It will be a kind of abstention of addiction period to give an excuse for everything, which will create a direct connection to their truest desires."

Do not ask "What do I need to get what I want?"
If you do, you'll soon discover that it's no use dreaming about this super trip, the business itself or a career change because they lack time, money, company, partner, knowledge ..., I suggest asking a question: "Is it possible?" Without dropping your dreams away, the question also works as an antidote megalomaniac plans. Example? If a secretary 40 years want to be an elite athlete, you see, the question is that this is not feasible, although it can run as an amateur and even participate in marathons. "But if she wants to make an old desire to be a nurse and help people? This, indeed, is possible, provided it is willing to go back to school"

Control the fear of being succeed and be noticed
Believe me, this fear is more common than you think. After all is much more comfortable and safe stay in the little world that we are already and know so well. Okay, be at the top, in the spotlight, it may mean becoming an easier target of criticism and envy. But I am afraid to shine because it can lead to a disastrous state of stagnation, to stop fighting for their fondest dreams. "The fear of risk and accommodation exit leads to the obvious conclusion that something 'not for me'. "It is dangerous to go after what you want." Yes, any realization takes work, requires a willingness to leave the comfort zone and involves dangers. But dare worth it. "Just so you will get the chance to enter  in the world their uniqueness, print your personal and non-transferable brand, is doing what he loves most, is raising a child, is writing a book.
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Minimizes complaints and enjoy their achievements
It depends on a commitment to maintaining their self-esteem on time and to get rid of generalizations you may have stuck in your head and that limit personal initiative. "Only complain about an unsatisfactory relationship, for example, and do nothing to get out of it reveals the fear of being alone, coupled with the belief in the maxim that decrees 'bad with him, worse without him' - and that is what sustains the accommodation. It also means you do not believe to be worthy of the good and healthy relationships. To reverse the situation, we must, first of all, stop complaining. Then direct the focus to the achievements made so far, giving due weight to them. "These simple actions reinforce self-esteem and nurture the courage. "Happiness is a state of mind does not depend on external things You will come to her knowing what really matters to you, loving what has already won without comparing with others and forgiving for errors that are part of any route. "

Change your mind: dreams are not realized by magic

And you will not have a happy life after impeccably come true. The desire for everything to be as perfect as we imagine, the ideal husband to the movie house, causes frustration. The idealization blurs the notion of reality and makes us dream of what is unattainable. Result: if we can not have perfection, we can end contenting ourselves only with what we received, although it is not quite what we wanted. Not to fall into the trap, be aware that great achievements are always the result of a lot of planning, commitment, and sweat, in a process that involves a handful of trial and error. So start making detailed and realistic plans to get what they deserve. You can take into account four features:

1. Physical or health and disposition.
2. Emotional, that is determination and courage.
3. Intellectuals, which translate into the ability to learn what it takes.

4. Financial, or money for whatever. If you already have on hand, great. Otherwise, it is always possible to raise the necessary funds.
flowers

Friday, June 19, 2015

Hey girls,
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Women like the truth. But do not truly believe that your cell phone was out of battery, that your friends like her or your ex-girlfriend does not mean anything to you. Women like subtle makeup and a straight hair. Women have angelic and devilish eyes. Both will work with you. Both will take you to heaven or to hell. Women are bad drivers. But are great conductors.

Women who do not drink are good. Those that drink are great. Woman who walks like whom is parading. As one who screams around your tendency to be miss block every year. Better than expensive perfume is bathed smell. And also, the smell of sweaty skin that lends its essence to lighter sweaters. Better than fashion dresses are our lucky social blouses. Those who for some reason have been forgotten in the second drawer and is now part of the female main hanger.

Better than straightened hair is a ponytail or entirely tousled hairs. Woman should sleep curled up and wake up almost throwing her man out of bed. Women who swear are more attractive. But do not swear at as a being depraved. Women must have modesty to learn how not to have it at the right times. Women do not need to know how to cook. But fit some unsuccessful attempts.

Beautiful women excuse me, but the most prettiest are the smart women. Woman has to be interesting. But never self-interested. Imperfections are always welcome. A few centimeters to over at the waist. Fingers of asymmetric feet. A thin nose too much for your taste. And too little butt by my country standards. Women have to have chest. And breasts too. Woman has to dress up as blockhead man, sometimes. But never forget weeping a silly movie - even if it is assisted for the eighteenth time. Women have to know how to speak "I love you" and "I want to have sex."
happy couple

Women like perfumes, jealousy and laughter. But they hate tickling. Tickling leave us vulnerable. Women like touch, voice in the ear and fondness in the earlobe. If a woman likes you, you're beautiful with your most expensive shirt or your most tacky jacket. Women are mothers and daughters, friends and lovers. But never treat her like you were her father. Women enjoy equality.

Women are innocent with those pseudo-friends - in deep, deep down - want to steal your kisses. Do not argue. Or try to teach her the evil that walks through the minds of some boys. Just accept that the woman who accompanies you is consumption dream of many others men out there - never forget that. That's the most important lesson you have to learn.

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