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Thursday, June 30, 2016

SOME MISTAKES THAT SPOILS A RELATIONSHIP!

The fellowship, loyalty, no quarrel, and good sex. The wishlist before a lasting relationship is extensive.
The lasting relationship is not as accurate as mathematics, however, to build a lasting relationship the only love is not enough, it depends on factors such as partnership and complicity, and share life experiences.
At the beginning of a dating both try to show the best version of themselves for the relationship to work. He tries to impress you in the hope you fall in love with him and you also do the same thing.
This first impression is to make him feel amazed as if he was sure he found the girl of his dreams, the woman of his life, but, when you got married, suddenly everything changes.

DISCONTENT
Unmet expectations are responsible for a large proportion of our unhappiness even if those expectations are unrealistic. The discontent has little to do with what happens outside and has everything to do with our attitude and approach. If you are finding that everything your partner does irritate you, try some different techniques to bring the contentment to your life and your relationship.

ROUTINE
The marriage ring is not a sign of eternity effective. The routine is one of the factors that can lead a marriage to the failure. We can never forget that we're constantly in psychological, emotional and physical transformation. Therefore, do not let your relationship to get in the routine or fall on it, because without the power of emotional creativity, the development of the marriage will not be happily ever after.

BELIEVE THAT YOUR PARTNER/SPOUSE WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY
You need to be happy with yourself so the others can make you even happier than you already are. Remember, no one is bound to make you happy. No one can give you happiness. You will not find it, you can only build it. Can take some days or weeks even years it will be better or worse than others. But you are the only one responsible for your own happiness.

DISTRACTION
At the beginning of the relationship, everything is wonderful, your focus is only on the other. Time to be together is a priority. After some months or the honeymoon phase fades even though the couple still deeply worry with the each other to fall into the routine of taking care of children, work, and other obligations. The relationship is like a plant if it is not constantly watered and fed will inevitably wither.

PRIDE
The pride is one of the seven deadly sins, and can be especially destructive to a dating or marriage. The pride keeps us from apologizing for something quite common in a lasting relationship. When we disagree, it is our pride that makes us want to be the right one, which usually means that the other person has to be wrong. To get rid of your pride in a relationship, focus on the good things about your partner and your relationship and express your gratitude. And make it good, really good to ask for and accept a genuine apology.

MISUNDERSTANDINGS
There is a level of comfort at a relationship the conversation is always essential. The more you know someone, the more you can anticipate your feelings or thoughts. But, be careful especially in assuming something negative and don't put words in the mouth of your partner.The effective communication remains important at all stages of a relationship.

Saturday, May 07, 2016

Ways to let a man ADDICTED in your touches

Vanessa Das Neves 5/07/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

A madwoman, a goddess, a sorceress. Who does not want to feel that way at the time to seduce your partner? There's no need magic, however, to let him addicted to you just as well, after the conquest happens in the real life. I separate some ways to act in and out of bed, which are very simple to tease him and let him eager of your touches.

Addictive touches

Despite this, the woman should feel free to explore the entire body of the partner, using the hands, the breasts, and the tongue. You can caress his chest with the tongue, lean over him and touch his breasts and still move in the groin and the scrotum without touching directly the penis. Give a grope in the butt, "with the handful", also, lead him to madness.

Be direct on the sex

According to the sexologist, the more the woman acts in a direct way on the sex, most the men like "in general". So it is very common that, in the preliminaries, they want as soon as the woman take the penis.
They just care about genital, that is, the value touches the genitals. So, touches on other areas such as the back, for example, is not very interesting to them.

Dirty things

Friday, April 22, 2016

Advantages and reasons of practicing sex without compromise

Vanessa Das Neves 4/22/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

Hello, girls! I hope you guys are going well! Did you already think about having a casual sex? Today I'm bringing some advantage of having casual sex.
The proposal of casual sex or sex without compromise only for pleasure with no commitment is becoming increasingly common. These days it is not uncommon for people to prioritize professional career, leaving aside the relationships, without giving up in the sex life. For these people, casual sex ends up being one of the options. There are some websites or apps that are specialized for casual encounters, such as C-date wich recorded close to 26,000 new registrations daily. All these people are looking for casual sex, a moment of pleasure without charge, without emotional commitment. There are several reasons why some people prefer casual sex than a relationship.

See some reasons:

Innovation: People in casual sex are more willing to new things, the characteristic of the casual sex that is come off and meet again.

No frustration: if things are not well in the nick of time, lack of expectation in wanting to please to impress, make the things easier in this regard. You do not create expectations.

Only for pleasure: no one will be nagging no one, the person does it just for the treat. Pleasure for pleasure.

It's good for the body: having sex active the blood circulation, it helps the body feel relaxed after sex. Sex is a great physical activity, but there is nothing that shows how many calories are dispensed during practice. What we know is that the same amount of oxygen that is needed in the brain at the moment of orgasm is the same amount used in the brain to climb two flights of stairs or walk for 30 minutes.

No shyness: by not having to please anyone, the person ends up feeling looser and just enjoy the moment. As this may be the only time, dedication is great and intense.

Improve your mood: sexual practice is released the hormone dopamine in the brain that triggers the pleasure zone and brings a sense of well-being for the human body. You can clearly see the relationship between sex and mood improvement. Sexual activity reduces cases of depressed mood because the sense of well-being and improved self-esteem.

Friday, February 26, 2016

The mistakes that men make in the bed that we women want you to know

Vanessa Das Neves 2/26/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

Hello, girls! How are you doing?
Let's talk openly. The truth is that women like sexual relation almost as much or even more than men. But, of course, where the partner do well done and we can take full advantage of the moment.
But, unfortunately, this is not something that happens frequently in relation to the male gender, because, although many men consider themselves good in the bed, but the last word is always of women and most of us usually disagree.

Currently, it is easier to talk openly about this subject with our partner or with our friends, and it is also normal to see many men brag of your performance and how much is "expert" on the subject. However, in many cases, the women leave the relationship dissatisfied and men to end up not learning that, after all, most women tends to be discreet and kind of "kind" so that the men don't feel bad.

Communication plays a very important role in time to reveal the tastes, fantasies and desires. However, at this point, the couple often fails due a series of taboos, cultural models and errors, which generally makes believe that it is very good at what he does when in reality the partner is not satisfied and do not enjoy the real pleasure.

For the men who believe they are all "good" and which are the best in bed, I have prepared a short list of the most common mistakes that can make at the time of the Act. Check out!

Lack of sexual conquest: Let naturally excited woman, not only with sex, has to do with the guy's content."

There's a time for jokes and this isn't it: As talk about her "flab and cellulite": "It's like she says that your penis could be bigger."

Friday, February 05, 2016

Special Valentine's Day: Gifts Ideas And Surprise!

Vanessa Das Neves 2/05/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

Hello, girls! The day of lovers is coming and do you know what you're going to do? If not, take this time and surprise your loved one.

Valentine's Day is a great day to prepare a surprise for your sweetheart. With small delicacies, you can make the day that celebrates love in an unforgettable date. Giving a nice gift and go out for dinner this is the choice for most couples, but the idea to surprise your partner, the best tip is to prepare a romantic or sexy surprise to celebrate this day.

If the idea is to celebrate Valentine's Day at home, the order is to plan a romantic dinner. In addition to thinking in a menu that pleases your partner and that does not compromise the performance of the sexual life after the dinner, it is important to create a romantic mood. The table decoration is a great ally in this regard. The excitement of love cannot really be contained. The strength of this love cannot really be measured. Love like you loves only once in the life.

Special Valentine's Day: Gifts Ideas And Surprise!

Prepare a surprise dinner for your loved one

It may seem cliche, but the surprise dinner is great to surprise your loved one. Cook something he or she likes, buy a good drink and decorate the room with candles, pictures of the two of you and love messages. To make the atmosphere even more romantic and personalized, put the songs that are part of your history.

Thursday, February 04, 2016

Special Valentine's Day: Tips, Decoration And Ideas!

Vanessa Das Neves 2/04/2016 Decoration , LoveandSex 0 Comments

Hello, girls! How is your week so far?
It is missing only ten days to the Valentine days. In order to commemorate this day we all make plan something special.
Valentine's Day is the kind of day that only words are not enough. What makes something special is the attention to detail. With Valentine's Day is no different. With a few small gestures, people (men and women) can make the day of the partner super romantic.
Do not let the date go in blank. Many people after a long time in a relationship begin to leave aside these dates. Schedule a meeting with your loved one, even if it has to be something quick. There are so many things you can do with your loved one to this day.

Special Valentine's Day: Tips, Decoration And Ideas!

Tips And Ideas

Start your day with romanticism. Small gestures: a nice message, a phone call, a flower on the pillow a "post-it" in the refrigerator, breakfast in bed, or even a breakfast basket. Small gestures that touch.

Give a gift or a souvenir of Valentine's Day. You do not need to compromise your entire budget, but do not let go without anything.

Surprise! Who knows a bouquet of flowers, candlelight dinner, an unscheduled trip on a weekend, a radical adventure, like a balloon ride, a little flower. Let the beloved gaping person!

Friday, January 22, 2016

Tips How To Get Multiple orgasms

Vanessa Das Neves 1/22/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

Hello, girls! How are you doing?
Get an orgasm: for some women, it is simple and easy, for others, it is the greatest difficulty. Often this difficulty is because they do not understand their own bodies and their most sensitive areas, but it also occurs due to lack of sexual satisfaction. There are no rules or specific positions, as they may vary from woman to woman.
Living the pleasure of sexual intercourse completely involves the initial desire for the each other, through the touches and caresses, from sexual play to the maximum pleasure, the orgasm. However, in any sexual intercourse it takes a time of (about 30 minutes), only a few seconds are dedicated to the orgasm. Why not prolong this ecstasy?

Do not be shy, ask for more!
In multiple orgasms, a woman can get during contractions of the first climax, she can feel again an uncontrolled pleasure that leads to the other orgasms if the partner does not stop stimulate it. Only to reach the first orgasm and others, the sexual intercourse has to be amazing from the beginning.

How to get orgasms?

The G-spot

Another way to get the woman to multiple orgasms is playing and gently caress the G-spot. If you do not know where is it? The point G is more sensitive tissue on the front of the vagina, located about 5.1-7.6 cm up the front vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra. To stimulate the G-spot, the movements should be delicate, with soft touches, making circular motions across the vagina, deep caresses, warm and very engaging.

Saturday, January 02, 2016

How to give your man best oral sex ever

Vanessa Das Neves 1/02/2016 LoveandSex , Relationship 0 Comments

Hello, glamourettes! How was your New Year?
For a good sex, you need sensitivity, knowledge and communication. It is also necessary a quality time and a dose of energy to keep up. We already know a good foreplay spice up the sex. The woman who understands that masturbation should be part of sex play takes great pleasure in seeing her partner excited, especially knowing that she is making him feel that way.

Create a climate

Prepare a hot bath. With the foam bath salts, slide your hands all over his body. Start with the feet, follow the external and internal parts of the legs, to the groin. Do not touch the penis right away to let him expectantly. It's the touch that you discover the strengths of your partner.

Make him a massage

Use a gel hot edible, what can be done oral sex on the side of his neck. Then move to the penis (use a little product to not overheat). With your hand, make movements up and down, with your thumb caress the body and the head of the penis. Use your breasts to massage his chest.

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

How to deal with problems in the relationship

Vanessa Das Neves 11/10/2015 featured , LoveandSex 0 Comments

Hello girls,
Who has not had problems in the relationship? But knows how to deal with problems in the relationship is a skill demanded in any kind of social interaction, dating or marriage, you must control even if at the beginning of the romance. The first thing to understand is that the problems exist whether you like it or not, because this is normal even in the most perfect of relationships.
Of course better to deal with problems is to avoid them. For this there are efficient way out, as usual use of sincerity and have a frequent conversations with the guy, about what you think and is feeling and vice versa. The question, however, is that most men do not always know how to do this, unlike women, who love to start a DTR.

When problems are unavoidable up to you to act with common sense and coherence. Here are some tips to follow so that all ends well and the problems are resolved:

Do not run away

The more you take to solve the problem, the more they can increase. So do not give away of the conversation with your boyfriend or husband, the attitude that should be taken to reach the solution of the obstacle. In addition to small problems are resolved before they become huge snowballs, when facing adverse situations in front of you, increasingly learn to make the best decisions in a relationship.

Do not lie

The problems in the relationship may be linked to factors outside of the couple - and the man may find it better to omit, or even lie about something as not to disturb or hurt your girl. However, it is no use, because if she is also involved sooner or later she will be privy of what happened and she will be "furious" with you for hiding her the truth.

Solve

It is also common that men simply do not want to solve the problem, just as occurs when he runs off of the problem, the tendency is for it to grow more and more like a snowball that grows in size and destroying everything. Being with a person is, also, to want the best for the both.

Solutions

To everything there is a solution. Thus, any problem can be solved, the only thing you can change is the result, according to the chosen solution. Assess in each case which action should be taken to cope the obstacles; otherwise, people can get hurt and your relationship may come to an end.

Share

Do not want to solve the problems alone when they refer to your relationship, they also involve your woman. If you are facing a problem that she did not realize, are doubts about the relationship or any other question, it is best to talk to the woman about it, letting her know about your thoughts and feelings. The worse is to solve alone and that exclude women, which will let her very upset with you.

Keep Calm

Although the woman best known for"lost her temper", men may also lose control and take harmful attitudes to life and the relationship, when you are facing a problem it is better to keep calm - so the head remains in place and you can think about a solution.

Thursday, May 14, 2015

When you find the right guy

Vanessa Das Neves 5/14/2015 featured , LoveandSex 2 Comments

Hi girls,
The perfect guy !!! Finding the perfect man is the desire of all women !! Sometimes I wonder does the perfect guy exist, if it is not only a girl's dream. No one is perfect, but when we find the right person, he just look perfect to you, and does not matter what other people say or think. You just want to be with that person.
We are often looking for the perfect man with unique qualities, that kind of who calls you beautiful, not hot, and opens the car door for you, he accompanies you to the bathroom on the party to do not leave you alone.
He does not fight with another man for you!
Only kisses you to show that you belong to him!
He does not praise you only for your qualities but for your flaw, and says that he loves you the way you are!
That goes with you to the doctor ... Who cares and gives the affection ... That who worries about you...
Calls you after leaving you at home to say that misses you!
Does not fight with you because the neckline, but praises and says that's just for him and the others do not need to see ... that remember you every minute even if you do not know!
But sometimes I think why love someone is not to have someone just the way we want to love, mainly is reveal and renounce many times, because if is the way we want would be very easy to love.
I hope you guys like it, and find the right man for you.

When you find a right guy

He accepts the way you are
No matter how confused, chatty and clumsy you are, he loves every detail of you. It makes you feel good even with the things you do not like about yourself.

He does not only hear what you say, but also what you do not say
He is so attentive that there is no need for you to tell him all the time what you're feeling. Yes, he knows very well!

Your happiness is his happiness, and vice versa
He wants the best for you, even if that means at some cost to it. The right man for you will make your interests his interests too, after all, all he wants is to see you happy. And you certainly will do the same.

With him you can just be you
In good and bad days he understands who you are and do not expect you to be anything else. In his eyes, you are special just for being you. No need to pretend.

Even after a bad day, all he wants is to be with you
No matter how bad your or his mood may be, he will always improve when you are with the person you love. He will listen to it patiently and bring the calm that you have not felt for a full day of stress.

You want to share all the experiences with him
Imagine your future with him beside you is something totally natural for you. And thinking about it brings an indescribable comfort.

You guys have the same ideal of romance
Whatever is your idea of romance - intimate dinners, romantic trip, stay home and watch - he shares it, and will strive to everything becomes better.

Your love is greater than the fighting impulse
There never seems to be a good idea to fight, because you care too much about him to hurt him. The relationship seems to always be the best option because you're both is happy. In the end, you really can not get angry with each other for long.

Monday, March 02, 2015

Tips how to spice up your relationship

Vanessa Das Neves 3/02/2015 LoveandSex , 0 Comments

Hello girls,
Today I'm gonna to talk about a subject that interests so much to us women.
The main complaint of men is in frequency is about relationship, because in general, they see sex more everyday than women. Especially in situations where the relationship is long, propose some ways to spice things up is the key. "The secret to spice things up , is knowing well your partner and understanding what he likes and what he does not like.
Sometimes we have to make much effort to the relationship or sex life not fall into the routine after a certain time together. So I studied a little about the subject and I brought some tips to spice up your sex life. I hope you like it. XoXo

The first tip is: You should only spice up a healthy relationship. "If your relationship is in crisis, this will not do anything for you. Better is look for a therapist.

The second important tip: just do what combine with you. . "Forget finger in the mouth , there's no point in appear using leather and holding the whip in your hand, that has nothing to do with you.And you look at yourself and ask: How do I see this woman? Do I like what I'm seeing? How can I improve this woman? So do I feel confident? "Improve the look can be a good initiative for those who want to spice up the relationship.

THE POWER OF LINGERIE
To spend an amazing night with your love, nothing better than to choose a pretty and sensual lingerie. "The sexy lingerie is not tiny one, red and flashy as many people think. The sexy lingerie is the one that hides what bothers the woman because then she will feel confident and show what they like,". "And the man in time to realize that she feels confident with herself, he will want to take off the lingerie!

Work in your five senses
Another tip is to explore your five senses. To work the hearing, put a soft music, low volume. To taste, opt for a drink such as champagne or wine, and fruits such as strawberry and cherry. Use a striking perfume for fanning the smell. "Put a little below in the groin and let him feel the fragrance every time you are having sex,". The way you touch is very important. "Use as much as you want of touch. Discover his body, which parts of his that you touch that make him going crazy." Also, try the massage oil. "But use sparingly because man does not like to be luscious,

Finally, stir up with his vision, which is the strongest male sense. "Women are the main aphrodisiac of men. So your look has to be flawless," . "Hydrate your skin; let the hair very pretty, regardless of it being long or short; make a good makeup, highlight the eyes because what you feel in your heart, you transmit in look.

Tuesday, February 03, 2015

Special Valentine's Day 2015: Decorations Ideas

Vanessa Das Neves 2/03/2015 LoveandSex , 0 Comments

I feel a little bored to see all commercial appeal around dates, at first sight, should celebrate precious presence in our lives as mothers, fathers, children and lovers. The shops is always filled with people buying perfume, clothes, watches and many other products that will be paid, packaged, delivered and received without any symbolic meaning. I like the symbolic. Or necessary.
In my way of dealing with life, passion - or love, or both - is feeling to care about and celebrate every day. Any weekend is a good excuse to prepare a special breakfast for each other. Any cold day is a good reason to share a blanket while watching a movie. Every smile or sweet look is good for a declaration of love .
Valentine's Day there are many activities that we can do, such as a dinner , go in the cinema, go to a bar, or go to a nightclub ....
For those who want to avoid a crowded restaurant, or want something reserved.
Or if you decided to surprise your boyfriend/girlfriend with a romantic dinner, I brought some decoration ideas for you. I hope you like it.